Here are some direct quotes from her…
“Life is more fulfilling and enjoyable when it is lived THIN. Its more fashionable, accommodating and easy.“
“Why do fat girls want to be accepted? Why do fat girls want to have a voice? YOU don’t (have a voice) for a reason. It’s not healthy!!!! You say enough just by your existence.”
“Have sex for you, but don’t get pregnant on your journey. I hate “Do-Overs” and getting pregnant even after losing 1 pound still equals a “Do-Over”.”
She claims to be an “intelligent, accomplished, traveled, sophisticated woman” but we don’t see anything that says you’re a caring, sweet, or a confident person and everything you want out of life is smoke and mirrors. In the end people remember the great and selfless things we did, the way they treated others and so on… not your sense of fashion or looks. I’m not saying it’s not hard sometimes, but life is hard anyway. I love having curves!
I will admit my first reaction was ANGER, but as I started to read more and more I could see the pain and anger in her words, and this actually made me feel sorry for her. She has let the media and shallow people control her life… they won… she has lost total control of her life and she can’t even see it. If you think your new friends are so wonderful where were they when you really needed them? If you think the men you will meet, when and if you achieve your goal of becoming skinny, are so great then you have a lot to learn about life.
I am diagnosing this case as Kirstie Alley Syndrome - When a person despises who they are, leading them to make jokes regarding their physique and self hate before others get a chance to. Usually done out of fear, weakness, lack of confidence and conforming to the mainstream thought process.
I would love to know what you think!